My son my heart

Oh my gosh, is it cold here… This morning around 8:45 it was only 6 degrees out. Ugh

Anyway, Man life has been crazy busy for me. Probably busy for everyone celebrating all these holidays. Even know I truly do enjoy them, I am kinda glad they are over. Now I can get back to me. Get back to more relaxing time because I sure do need it. Life has been a little extra upside down in my home though than normal. Even considering the holiday craze.

My son has been going through the worst ever first heart-break break-up ever. My heart is so torn and sore right now for him. I never knew that when my children would start dating that it would affect my heart so much. And this particular break-up was extra bad due to his ex girlfriend not only breaking his heart but also stringing him along for I don’t know why. I figure fun for her. Plus taunting him with friends. Like WTF????

Literally one night in particular his ex and a bunch of friends, whom my son know’s. Plus a cousin who Naven isn’t close to but that don’t make it ok. They all were texting him from all these different numbers saying the most awful unthinkable things. I have never seen my son so broken. My poor baby who I couldn’t¬†even help. Who, we as parent’s couldn’t help. We wanted to fix things so bad And would have gladly taken all the pain and agony¬† to our selves to feel in place of him if possible.

This was truly one of the hardest things to have gone through as a parent so far..¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† We wanted to take all his pain away, but couldn’t… ūüė¶¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† This was all so much more than anyone could ever deserve. My son has the kindest softest heart and truly did NOT deserve this!!!

We, my husband and I were so lost on how to help him after a while of all this.¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†Like we to were lost on it all. We did what we could. Changed Naven’s phone number. Confronted who we could. Family helped us as well. We did end up getting him in counseling with a women who has 3 son’s and raising a 4th at home and who has had a lot of teen boy patients. Her name is Paula and my son’s loves talking to her. So that was great news to hear and he has gotten a lot better… Thank you God!!!

So all that crap right,,, and this little ex girlfriend really had the nerve to try to get a hold of him on Christmas. Even to the extent of trying to go through Devyn. Whom is one of Naven’s cousin’s that he is super close to. Who also by the way has been at his beck and call through all of this. She’s such a wonderful cousin to Naven. She would come asap whenever¬†Naven would call. I can never thank her enough.

It is so wonderful to see my son be my son again. Talking, interacting with us and most importantly Happy!!! He’s just¬†been so emotionally happy during Christmas break and I hope he stays that way.¬† I am a little worried about how going back to school today will affect¬†him though. Seeing the not so nice people there. Thank God the ex don’t go to his school.

Anyway I truly can’t wait untill this chapter has completely closed…¬† ¬†And no I do not look forward to my daughter dating. Ughhhhh. Makes me nervous. I guess this is one good reason that I’m glad I only had two kid’s. Lol

 

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