Father in-law Update

So he’s home. He came home on hospice. I can’t even remember dates or what I’ve already wrote. Everything kinda just blends.

Anyway, he’s home.

When he came home we were told today to anytime. And when he came home he was a bit better than before he left the hospital. Which gave me hope.

He has had good days and bad days.

Mothers day was a bad day. He then continued having a few bad days in a row and this past Tuesday , so about 4 days ago he got really really bad. All three of his children came. Everyone was crying. It was just them. I let them just be because I did show up to see my husband. I had to grab some milk money from him. Anyways he told me kind of what was going on because I had no idea. I later found out that it was a very very bad day. The worst day he’s had yet. Then he turned around the next day and he seems to be improving. A little bit more each day. He even went for a ride with his daughter in with the top down. Then the next day after that went with his son (my husband). They turned in all the pop cans because my father-in-law collects pop cans and he had a ton and he wanted to give the money he got to my daughter, which is his granddaughter for her Washington DC 8th grade trip. Which she is going on Monday morning. We have to have her at her school at 5:30 a.m. nice right? Yes.

Anyways, so then he had some good days in a row right. So he went to the recycling center, then my husband went and got his fishing license and I guess my father-in-law was walking around the store while they were there. So he’s had some real good days lately. Sitting up on the porch and living life. Which I’m loving!

I saw him even today sitting on the porch. Just having a good day. I guess he can’t take anybody Mowing and cutting grass though because he had to go put the whole oxygen mask on after 30 seconds of being outside with the neighbor mowing. So we learned that today.

He went on another ride with his daughter today with the top down again. They went to meet the other daughter to get the donuts the other daughter had got him from a place I don’t know. Lol

Anyways yes, so he is having better days. of course on oxygen he can’t do too much and can’t talk too much either. Walks super slow as well. Everything just takes everything out of him but it just makes me so hopeful.

Also a lot of emotional type things have been happening. His kids had to go set things up for the end which was super emotional. There’s really nothing you can say about that but he’s doing so much better and I feel so much better. I love this man. He is the best man I’ve ever met in my life. He really truly is a great father, husband, son, grandfather, and father-in-law. He’s the best father I’ve ever had.

Let’s please keep praying. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Thank you! Love you all!


Warrior πŸ’œ

Best father in-law

So yes, I do have the world’s best father in-law ever!

He’s been the best father anyone could ever ask for!

My heart is broken right now because he is very very sick. I hope my children realize what happens when you smoke.

This will be the most devastating thing they have ever gone through. The worst thing my husband will ever incounter. So hard on all of us who love him.

He was just put on hospice…

Yeah my past week has been one hell of a week. Yesterday is when we actually got the worst news ever. He was givin a day to anytime or he could be with us a few more months. His time is completely unknown at this point. He has good periods but then some very bad ones. Please pray for my father in-law and my family.

May=Fibromyalgia Awareness MonthπŸ’œ

So, my daughter and I are about to dye our hair ombre and or ends purple to do our part in helping to spread fibromyalgia awareness. As well as light a purple bulb on my porch for the month. πŸ’œπŸ˜πŸ’œ

My calves ….

Ouch, ouch,ouch….


Yet again…

My right calves hurts so bad. One long cramp. Stuck in place for so freaking long. Others join in as pop out assassin but the one. Man. All of them.. ouch!! The pain is musty stuck there forever. I’ve done all my tricks and now I’m actually REALLY tying to rest. My husband even gave me a massage.😁 He’s the best!

But yes my current situation is a wrapped calve inside my heating pad. I have my hair tie holding it around my calve. πŸ˜‰ you do what you gotta do and improvise😁 lol

Ps. I’ve went loco. Is it calve calf or ?? I don’t even know. Brain fog for sure. Haha

So, here is a real life picture of my life right now. πŸ’œπŸ’›